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writes:i met this guy 8 months ago.i liked him,so i said i give it a try.we were a couple for 6 months.he loved me,but i didn't share his feelings.i just liked him.so,our relationship was all about me!we broke up and then get it on again so many times,just because of details.i was the one who ruled the relationship,he was like my pet..so,a month ago,i decided to break up with him officially!i did so,and i tried to move on.he still loved me,but i found a new crush and i was totally in love with him.we never had a relationship,he was just"look and daydream!"but i saw him kissing another girl..i was totally hurt!so,i went back to the loving ex,two days ago!i think i did this because i thought he could make me forget of my crush,or because i thought i could make him jealous.that means i used my ex!now,today actually,i saw again my crush and i think i want to break up with my ex!i know i am so mean,but it feels bad to know i hurt him once again..pls tell me what to do..should i break up with my ex??and how??
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reader, toughlove  +, writes (12 October 2007):
What goes around comes around. You try to play the system, and you get played. The only way to really win is to have good intentions. You keep trying to test these universal forces and "win", feel some sort of a superiority over another person who has better intentions than you, but all you get is the same run around you are giving. Straighten up. Act openly and honestly. This guy you've been seeing who you've been a jerk towards - give that relationship a chance and see if it was just you that was messed up and whatever was wrong with your relationship can be fixed with love. The hot player guy - learn to see him for what he is: self-involved and not bf material.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): Why make their lives miserable, just walk away and let them have a life!!! Sorry, but i do think you are a bit of a scheming bitch, so quit now. Meet someone else and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou are so right,thanks!i will try to break up with him and move on..thanx!!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (11 October 2007):
 Hi
Yes i think you should. Let the guy move on and find someone that will actually love him back.
All sounds like a lot of drama. I guess a certain amount of that happens when you are young.
But forget the crush too. He is with someone else and all this game playing and making him jealous, or trying to, is pointless really. Stay single a while and wait for mr right.
Just tell the one you are with now that you are sorry, but this isnt going to work, then leave him be. Dont get tempted to reel him in. You cant keep beating this guy to a pulp emotionally. He might well eventually turn on you.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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