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writes:i was married 27 yrs, divorced, regret it. remarried, a man that is an alcoholic and smokes about 3 packs a day. he shows no interest in me but that i bring home my paycheck and he has someone to keep the house from feeling lonely when he comes home. am i doomed to never be happy. i have been cut off from my children and grandchildren. should i stay or try to begin again, 56 and searching for the right answers.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 April 2009):
 I agree with the guys and the girls. You can leave this relationship and start anew.
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reader, missaangel09  +, writes (6 April 2009):
 if you want company get a dog!! you dont need a man!he sounds like a using slob and has pushed your family out so he can get away with it.your better than that! your age has NOTHING to do with starting over again if you want to do it there is nothing stoping you..talk to friends and family tell them what his like they will helpyour worth more than that. if he is happy looking down the bottom of the glss for the rest of his life good for him but there is a world out there for youyou only have one life!!!do something about it asap x x
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 April 2009):
 Well, I'm about the flipside of you - long married, but not remrried. Anyway, it's simple - if not happy, you probably have to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): you are still young, and in good health i assume. you need to put his blank out of the house and get on with your life. Find happiness. if you can't have contact with your kids or grandkids. then you need to put him to the curb.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (6 April 2009):
 Hi there,You are still young. The only person who is responsible for your happiness is YOU!! It doesn't sound like you are happy with your situation so change it. You are not being appreciated or loved. It isn't good enough to stay for someone who "keeps you company". Why are you cut off from your family? Seems like you are trying to figure out a way to reach out and reconnect to loved ones. Times awaiting....Take care.
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