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I'm 14 and this 17 year old guy has been all over me lately I really like him but I know all that he wants is sex.

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Question - (12 May 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2007)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm 14 and this 17 year old guy has been all over me lately I really like him but I know all that he wants is sex. What should I do?

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (12 May 2007):

kenny agony auntI would walk away from this guy, you are far to young to be thinking about doing things like this yet, and he knows it.

Also were you to sleep with him he could get into alot of trouble for sleeping with an underage girl. He sounds like he just wants one thing, be strong and ditch this guy.

Good luck x

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man +, writes (12 May 2007):

bubbloo24 agony auntYou need to realise that you have more worth than that. Sex is for couples who really love eachother. Don't do something you'll regret for the rest of your life and if you're a virgin, make sure you're first time will be memorable and with someone you love. Don't lose your virginity to a guy who's only after one thing.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2007):

Get rid of him. He's not worth it. How can you like a guy who is just looking for sex? Find a guy closer to your own age and isn't just looking for a relationship based on sex. (By the way how come you put yourself in the age gap of 10-12 when you say that you are 14? Was it a mistake?)

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2007):

love-him agony auntstay clear of him. you dont want him to push you into anything, and he may try if you were around him. tell him youre not interested, even if u like him. tell him your not interested in what he has to offer. find your self a nice lovin guy, u deserve it, hope i helped x x x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2007):

Right you know what you have to do otherwise you will only be hurt in the end. I mean how many other girls has he done this too and got what he wanted from them, think about that.

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A male reader, Royofthe Rovers United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2007):

Royofthe Rovers agony auntYou know what you should do otherwise you would'nt be on this site asking this question. You know what he is doing is wrong, your young and you know you are not ready; so tell him this and walk away.

If he loves you he will wait, but it sounds like he is only after one thing and you are worth more than that.

Your time will come when you are ready for a deeper relationship and you meet someone who is interested in more than a quick sexual fix with a minor.

Be strong.

R

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