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writes:hi i an 14 and i like younger girls Im even in love with someone 4 years yonger then me and some people say its sick..can you give me some advise Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007): i feel u... but i think that if it's not a sexual attraction... i mean... if you get attracted to a young girl because of how she acts, i think it's ok... u just have to wait a little... seeing a 14 yr old with a 10 yr old may look a little weird to others... maybe meet her up in her house only... but i'm telling you, DO NOT DO ANYTHING SEXUAL YET... patience is a virtue... :)
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 I think you should look at the reasons why you like younger girls. Perhaps you are not terribly mature for your age or you are scared of girls your own age. Perhaps you find it easier to impress younger girls. Whatever the reason, it is not necessarily 'sick' to like younger girls but you have to appreciate they will be just that 'girls' rather than aged 14 which is entering the stage of young womanhood. In adulthood, age gap relationships would not be a problem but I rather suspect most mothers of a 10 year old would be concerned to learn that a 14 year old teenager was taking a romantic interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): I think you need to get a hobby that has nothing to do with thinking about being in love with a 10 year old girl when you yourself are a kid of 14....surely there is something that interests you besides little girls....and yes I think you may be sick, perhaps some fresh air would do you some good, do you ever get away from the computer and the tv and play outside? Do you like baseball, join a team, it is summer in the US, and you need to get some fresh air as well as some focus going on other things besides girls so that you learn a little bit more about who you are.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): I know how you feel. 2 years ago when i was 13 I like this girl who was younger. Like about 9 or 10. I think the best advice is to not take it serious. Eventually somone in your family is goin to find out, so your proabaly going to change your thought of how you feel. I did. Wen My parents suspected something. I just felt like a perve. You should really think about what you feel. and want.
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