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writes:I am 13 years old almost 14 and I think.I am pregnant my boyfriend said he would stay but I'm scared about our parents reaction me being almost 14 and his being 16. We both don't believe in abortion.I'm scared.... Any advice?
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 Firstly, did you have unprotected sex? Or did the contraception fail? Ad is your period late? You're too young to be having sex, but protected sex is better than unprotected so if you intend on carrying on then go on the pill. You don't have to be at the age of consent to go on the pill and everything you tell the nurse in confidential =]
Secondly, why have you had sex already? What is the age on consent in your state? I suggest from now, if you can, to wait until you're old enough before you do it again.
Thirdly, consider all the options. Abortion, adoption, keep. You say you don't believe in abortion and nor does your boyfriend which is fair enough, but if you kept the baby would it have a good quality of life? Could you and your boyfriend provide it with a stable home and everything it needs?
Take a pregnancy test, then come back to us when you find out the result =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): have you tried "planned parenthood"?? - i believe you can get tested their for free and talk to counsellors etc about your options :)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 April 2010):
You just have to get it over with. Take a test and find out if you really are pregnant.
If you are then tell which ever set of parents you think will take it best. Then get them to come with you to tell the other set of parents.
You decided you were old enough to have sex so you have to deal with the consequences.
What do you think about adoption?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, rachibear87 +, writes (6 April 2010):
Hey honey. First of all i would take a test asap. If you are pregnant you need to tell your parents. There is also alot of support groups that can help you. Your doctor can help you and support you. You are not the first 13 year old to get pregnant and you wont be the last. Take care of yourself. I really hope everything turns out to be okay for you x
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