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Why is this guy acting this way?

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Question - (6 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, i met a guy the other week, he was really into me and couldnt stop looking at me and asking me questions. I am considered to be very attractive but i dpnt take compliments well!!! he works away and was even suggesting that i got a job with him so i could go with him. we ended up at one of his friends one night, and his friend was basically trying to chat me up and make sure i had his phone number. i could tell the guy i was was with did not really like it if i gave his friend any attention. his friend then popped out of his house and the guy i was with then started saying things would i want another baby as i already have a son. i said maybe one day. then he said he may go back to his country after 2 months, so i said oh well i may as well go to turkey where this guy loves me and is always asking me to go. he looked at some text messages and photo of my friend in turkey and seemed to get angry. we was cuddling up but i could sense the anger in him, so i left not long after and i think he was pretending to be asleep. i was bombarded that day with anonymous phone calls. i tried to contact him a couple of days later but he is ignoring me. i apologized for anything i might of said and then really left him to it as that was the second attempt. i dont want him to think he can manipulate me if maybe that is what he is trying to do. ive also been getting some funny phone calls where the person listens in to where i am, and i didnt get them before so i think it may be him. can anybody help and tell me as to why he is being like this?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2010):

So you chat with lots of other guys in front of your boyfriend and now you are wondering why your boyfriend is angry and acting insecurely?

It doesn't sound like you are ready to be in a relationship with anyone. If you want to have some fun with men then great, go for it, they ARE very fun! But don't have a boyfriend.

tell him you are not ready to be with anyone and let him find a girl that wants to be with him and him alone.

Good Luck!! xx

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