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writes:Hey well I'm thirteen and I'm turning 14 in January and I live in a group home cause my parents abused me but thats all going good now and I'm going home in OctoberI have been in placement for over a year and there's this feeling that i get sometimes that just makes me want to have sex! First of all is that normal? And there's this kid that I really like and he asked me if I wanted to do it and I said that I didn't know but I really want to so what should I do? And I know that this will sound weird but i feel like I want to do it so bad that i tried to do it with this kid that I met a while ago and he was good but then I got caught by my grandmother while i was out on pass and ever since that really want to do it can you help me!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Azure Rain +, writes (20 September 2009):
You should wait. I lost my virginity at a around your age and i regret it to this day. I feel so bad about it that i didn't even write how old i was. I did it with a boy who like me and i liked him and he suggested we do it. I felt all of the crazy urges they are normal. If you think you want to give up something that you can never get back it can wait. Think about the boys you liked/ crushed on/ were in love with last year. Do you still feel the same way about them now?
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reader, SkyLaBleu +, writes (20 September 2009):
 Ok, I lost my virginity at 14, right before I turned 15, literally. I'm still with the guy. But I'd been with ahim a year before. It's made my emotions so much deeper towards him, the hurt hurts worse and such.
In a way I regret it, even though I love him dearly.
Please take my advice and wait til you are older, atleast 18. I'd wait to find someone you love and truly loves you back. Wait hun.
Your hormones are raging.
I've been there and I didn't give in, if I had of I'd be screwed. Because my boyfriend at THAT time is now 16 and has a baby with one of my x friends.
These guys are trying to take advantage of you, do NOT let them.
Please wait.
If you have anymore questions message me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2009): When I was your age I was still playing with Barbies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2009): I started thinking about sex at a very young age, 9 or 10. I was not an abused child in anyway. I lost my virginity to my first love of 2 years when I was 15. It was very special, it wasn't just with anyone. I am not conservative at all TRUST me and this advice. Your body doesn't know how to even react to sexual stimulation. It will not be enjoyable, in fact it will hurt and if you have it with someone who doesn't love you(for a LONG time) you will feel used too. Don't let yourself be damaged goods. Save it for someone special and when you are a little older. You are looking to be accepted and loved and although having sex will make you feel like that it will only be for a very short time. And when you need that feeling again, you will have sex with someone else and the pattern will continue. Don't be a statistic and get an STD or be a teenage mom. You have your entire life ahead of you. Make good choices for yourself...no one else will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2009): it is normal to have urges like that
i did and i did have the urges but i didnt do it
you should wait for that special person
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