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writes:I need some advice on a guy that I work with, we have been flirting for about nine months, we finally had a quick snog, he has a rep as being a ladies man but I really fancy him, so I went for it, he text me to he liked it and I was just wondering if he is really into me or just playing games and if I give in and go further will I just be another notch of his bed post so to speak.
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reader, OmegaXF  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 If the girl is easy then he probably won't want you for nothing more than sex. Make him work for it. And you'll have a definite answer.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (3 March 2009):
 Don't just jump in to bed with him. Make him work for it, I have pulled girls and slept with them soon after and have never had a long term relationship from it. I think mainly if a girl is easy and has no respect for herself why should I respect her?
Go on a few dates with this guy, find out if he's looking for a relationship, then once you are together, and I don't mean after two days, have sex, make it meaningful so he knows you are serious and don't want to be messed around.
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (3 March 2009):
 Is he seeing anyone at the moment? Or like you said, is he still taking home women friends for a snog?
If his text just said he liked it, it meant that he liked it. Would he have another one? Probably, if he liked it. From you? Probably. From another woman? Probably.
If he had texted that he liked it and would like to get to know you better, than there is a chance that he would like to get to know better, and at the same have some more of what it was that he liked (with you).
I think you are liking him too much at this stage. Take care of your heart though. Hearts can be a very fragile thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): You suspect you'll just be another notch on his bedpost and you're probably right.
So be a grownup about it. Hook up with him if you want, but don't get hurt & angry when he turns out to be nothing more than the player that you suspect he is. You already have a pretty good idea what you're getting into right now.
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