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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend, Henry, for three years, loved him for seven. He's currently away in Washington visiting his relatives for the summer. He won't be back until September 9th. I love Henry and I've always been attracted to him. My friends don't get why I would be but he always makes my heart race when I see him. We've never had sex. We want to wait until the time is right. And like any normal girl, I masturbate. And I've always been able to climax with the thought of Henry in my mind. But today, I couldn't. I came close several times. I used a vibrator and touched myself. What's wrong with me? Am I not attracted to him anymore?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 August 2012):
One time, I was masturb**ing and fantasizing about my favorite girl, when a tree limb fell on my roof!!!! (It had been windy outside!)..... I wasn't able to "finish" the deed!
BUT, I understood that it was simply an aberration ... a one-time occurance ... and I never again thought of it, as I pursued my life of self-pleasure....
Good luck.... (and, have fun!)....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 August 2012):
 I agree. It's a one time thing and it happens all the time...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 August 2012):
 Of course not. Sometimes things just don't work that well. Also a vibrator can temporarily numb you, which will make it difficult-impossible to orgasm. Don't worry about it, it means nothing at all.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (22 August 2012):
 I think your still attracted to him, but if you have other things on your mind it can affect the whole process.
Dont worry so much about it, its natural :)
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