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writes: I'm confused I wrote a few weeks back about my ex breaking up with me, because I dated someone for 4 months. For those who may not have read my earlier writing... You see when I met my ex he was married and living with his wife and told me they were getting a divorce because she cheated on him. Every time he said he was moving out there was always a problem with money. I had waited on him 4 years and 8 months before I dated someone else and at the time his situation was still the same. Well, he decided that he could not take me back because of this, even after my sincere apologies. I really love him, but I have accepted his choice. Now, this is what I'm confused about, he called me today to see how I was doing. We got into a conversation about us and he said that he loved me and that when he loves someone it stays that way. He said that I was too nice for him and that I deserved someone much better. This guy said he would lay his life down for me. He said he had not met anyone nice like me and nobody he thought was nice enough for me. If he thinks I'm that nice why can't we try again? I won't tell my race but he said that the next woman he dated would be the opposite race. I was offened by that statement, because he made it sound like my race was not good enough for him. The next nice person could be either race but only one gets a chance with him. I don't know why he would say he would give his life for me when he won't even take the time to help me with something that would take about 20 minutes. I'm also wondering if he won't give us a chance, because he is just ready for something new.
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reader, ez4u2say  +, writes (20 May 2009):
You fell for the oldest trick in the book. Get on with your life and you should have started 4 years and 8 months ago.
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