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writes:I have been dating this guy for almost a year and i can honestly say that i love him now and that he loves me but i am 5 and a half months pregnant and I did not love him at the beginning. my question is if he loved me as much as he wants me to believe why does he still have flirtatious and suspicious behavior? Although I can not prove that he acted on it i have proof that he had intent is that the same thing.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (17 September 2010):
 He might care for you, but he definitely doesn't respect you.
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reader, OhGetReal +, writes (16 September 2010):
 If you are 5 and a half months pregnant instead of simply focusing on whether or not your boyfriend is going to leave you, flirting with other women with intent, accept the fact that you are still single. You are going to be a single mom.
Put your focus squarely on YOU and your pregnancy and avoid stressful situations and arguments with your boyfriend. No matter how much you agonize and anlayze his words his behavior is your only truth and you have absolutely no control over that anyway. He will do what he wants to do and there isn't a damn thing you can do about it.
So tell him what you expect out of him, what you want from this relationship because if you act like you are up for what ever is happening in front of you, that is how he will treat you. Be prepared to let him walk away if he doesn't meet your standards and expectations because you won't want him if he doesn't live up to his responsibilities to you and the baby.
Take care.
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