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Will my husband know I lost my virginity?

Q.   i was 12 wen i lost my virginity..my periods had not started by that time...now i am 26 and worried that when i get married,will my husband come to know that i have lost my virginity?plz suggest....

A.   13 July 2009: he probably wont kno it depends on his experience and intution but you should just tell him your not a virgin i doubt he will care no one expects to meet a virgin at your age anyway... (read in full...)

I'd like to ask my girlfriend for oral sex, but I don't want her to feel rushed

Q.   ok well i am 14 and i want to ask my gf for a bj (blow job) idk i have give her some hints about it and stuff but idk i mean i love her and all i just kinda feel we can move on into more stuff then just kissing and hugging...idk am i rushing into ...

A.   13 July 2009: Whats a V-card any way just ask her ether she will or she wont she may need to be convinced is ok to push her but not to mutch make sure its her decison in the end or you will feel bad yourself shell probably do it just play it smooth dont ask her ... (read in full...)

Will I regret having sex with someone I won't love later in life?

Q.   So I'm 14 and I know I'm kind of young, but I look more like I'm 18 apparently and I've done everything but have sex, and I've been asked many times to have sex and I've always turned people down, but I kind of want to have sex, but I partly also ...

A.   13 July 2009: I dont beleive in love i believe in emotional attachment, The answer to your question lies in why your having sex if your doing it so he will love you then your gonna hate it cause at 14 your probably going to have many more men in your life. if ... (read in full...)

44 year old virgin and not sure what to do

Q.   I think that to be honest I may have more than one question in this subject but my main one is how to make love. I am a 44 yr old virgin and a girl of 28 (woman) has come into my life it was love on first sight sort of thing. But im very inexperi...

A.   13 July 2009: wow... 44 thats crazy why thats my only question.. secondly why did you wait for a woman that has four kids, alert! theres a good chance she allready knows your a virgin. You should watch the movie 40 year old virgin its was actually pretty good, ... (read in full...)

I'm a 22 year old virgin and I just want someone to love

Q.   Im a 22yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I hang out with a large group of friends and i always feel like the 5th wheel that cant roll with the group due to the fact ...

A.   13 July 2009: Wow DR V is hillarious! any way to the poster i think an alter ego fck being your self make up a new you rite it down on paper and everyhting it will be fun trust me you can be a big time record producer driving a lambo your to young to be worying ... (read in full...)

Virgin, think about sex all the time.

Q.   iam 24 years old and I am virgin and I want to know if its good to think about sex all the time?...

A.   13 July 2009: WHy are you still a virgin, do you want to have sex,or do you just think about it and not actually want to. your 24 theres no reason to be a virgin assuming your an average blu blooded american girl bombarded by sexual images everyday it would be ... (read in full...)

My first time, how do I move during sex??

Q.   I've been dating my boyfriend for a long time (well over a year now) and we've only just decided to have sex (we're both in our 20s but decided to wait until the time is right, which it is now!). However, I've never had sex and although he has ...

A.   13 July 2009: Not all porn is negative theres educational adult videos that you could probably benefit from you can even watch it with your partner. i suggest you give it a try ... (read in full...)

Why do I keep thinking back about this incident from my past...?

Q.   hey, i dont really know how to put this, ill try to keep it short. I was talking to my boyfriend the other day about embarressing things we did when we were younger and one thing popped up that i remembered when i was little, in year 3. I went t...

A.   13 July 2009: you didnt say what exactly he did to you sexual stuff can mean alot did he just touch you in a sexual inappropriate way or areas did he have sexual intercourse or penetrate you at all with anything. at any rate you have remembered it all theese ... (read in full...)

White female attracted to black guys...

Q.   I am a white female and i am really attracted to black guys. Its not just a physical thing, its their confidence. It's just my preference. Everyone has preferences right? The only problem, is there where i live, black guys like white girls for ...

A.   13 July 2009: you have to take your age into consideration too, im guessing your dating guys your age at 16 and 17 boys arent thinking about marriage and long terms relationships there just boys there family has alot of influence on them you need to date some men ... (read in full...)

My daughter is showing her body to some guy via her phone!

Q.   hey i'm in big problem. My daughter is 16. I saw his mobile phone with some wrong messages. she was sharing with her school mate..those message r kind of sexual pleasure. Its seems they r showing their body to each other . i know the boy well. he ...

A.   13 July 2009: Wow your losing faith in her over that shes 16 not six think about all the things you where into at 16. Any way its not a big deal i dont kno what country flag you have but in the states almost every kid with a cellphone does that just tell her to ... (read in full...)

My father is calling this incest!

Q.   Hey. Iv been with this guy a month then my father starts saying his my cousin and calls me insest and everything and its really annoying me, iv tried telling him to stop but he wont listen. The past 4years he has be making my life misrable and i d...

A.   12 July 2009: you should find out if he's really your cousin if he is and you really like him just tell your dad to lay off or your never talking to him again you're not gonna put up with his bs any more don't cry be serious when you talk to him... (read in full...)

Please help... My brother molested me and I'm afraid he'll do it again.

Q.   Recently, my stepbrother has been trying to pants me. i thought it was just some inmature thing a brother would do. but last night, my step brother and me were in my room talking. We were just talking about his ex-girlfriend and other thing like ...

A.   12 July 2009: I think you should confront him first if you tell your parents it could ruin both your future relationship and your brother will never forgive you, what he did is messed up but he deserves a second chance and shouldn't be condemned so fast he's just ... (read in full...)

I'm intimate with my mom's fiance's daughter

Q.   well this is a very complicated situation for me. hear me out tho before you judge me. my mom met her current boyfriend/fiancé about two years ago and I didn't meet his family til about a year later. I'm 22 at the time and his daughter was 16...it ...

A.   12 July 2009: I don't see a problem your both grown it may be a little awkward though let us know how the conversation goes but yeah just tell them and get it over with... (read in full...)

Is there anyone that can explain my dream to me?

Q.   I had a weird dream the other day. See i have just finished school, and i am sad that we have left it, the thing im most sad about is leaving my form tutor she was amazing and im going to miss her deaply. Anyway in this dream last nigh...

A.   12 July 2009: why dont you just go see her and tell her how u feel.... (read in full...)

He bought me a diamond ring but I still want to have the abortion

Q.   I am completely torn about whether or not to have an abortion. I could really use some adivce because I haven't told many people I am pregnant.I am 21 years old, and my boyfriend is 25. He has a good job and could support a baby, and has lots of ...

A.   16 March 2009: Wow,why do you think having a child means you cant fulfill your dreams? Its just a baby not the end of the world. If your bf is so commited why hasnt he asked you to marry him? The choice is yours but more then likely you wil regret having an abor... (read in full...)

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