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anonymous
writes:Hi,I met a man online 3 years ago. We chatted along time before meeting he seemed normal other than enjoying exposing himself to me. We were seeing eachother approx 5 months when I felt something was up. We would chat online and his responses were very delayed ( like he was speaking with someone else) he would say oh sorry tummy ache I was in the washroom. Anyways one day I went to his place and he left his chat open and yes I peeked. He had saved conversations with multiple women engaging in sex, while he masterbated for them. I confronted him, and he said their buddies and they always speak about sex. He thought it was normal. I ended it there and then. We've spoken on and off over the last year, he wants to reunite, I'm hesitant. He makes comments of unusual sex that he wants to try also 3 sums. Him going down on males etc. I'm uncomfy with this. Am I doing the right thing by just keeping it friendly rather than dating with him again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): Erm... unless you are into all that stuff i would just chalk it up to a bad experience and leave it at that.
By all means stay friendly but i don't think a relationship is a good idea.
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reader, hammyj  +, writes (31 January 2011):
RUN A MILE. And then keep going!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): YES! That is not normal. Theres plenty of fish out in the sea. You find someone, just give it some time! Chin up!
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