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writes:so i am in love with a guy and want to be with him and only him hes the first guy that ive had a relationship with ever since i got seperated and divorced the problem is iwas being honest with him and told him i made a mistake and was with one of his good friends before we got together,just because i didnt want his friend telling him and then he dumping me,now that i told him he has a big problem with it and says it happened the same kinda thing before and he doesnt think their frienship could stand it again,going through that,we love each other but hes saying he has to think about it and follow his heart.so hes saying goodbye to me right??? and choosing his friend over me??? just wondreing what everyone else thinks when im in love with him and dont wanna lose him over something so stupuid.
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reader, mcbirdie  +, writes (20 May 2007):
 Unfortunately, it isn't really 'stupid' to him or his friend. People are different in how they see exes and their friends dating people they have been with.
Depending on how long they have been friends and how close they are, it is quite likely that you ex will not want to ruin his friendship for a relationship. If that is the case, there isn't anything you can do except respect his decision as best you can.
I would talk to him one last time and tell him how much you care for him and that you would like to make it work, but in the end, if his friend doesn't like it and he wants to keep his friend happy, I'm afraid there isn't much you can do.
Best of luck.
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