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male
age
36-40,
*riston
writes:I agree that being molested as a child can screw up ones sexual idenity. Here is my reasoning. I was molested from the age of 12 to the age of 14. I am not gay but I do beleive that I am Bi-sexual. Which is very weird because I dont want to be attracted to guys but only some times do i find a male that I find attracting. But I know that it is wrong and gross; additionally, against my faith. Being molested does not end it continues like a circle. (Not In every person this is the case.)Some kids that were molested go on and molest a child. But that is the extreme case where the victim becomes the predator. Now if you do have those feelings dont act on them please. I am now dealing with feelings that I cant understand and I just want to forget that any of this happened. I dont know what to do. its like i am spinning in circles while fight the urge to hurt someone. I have to end this problem NOW!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 Please read the book: The Sexual Healing Journey by Wendy Maltz: A Guide For Survivors of Sexual Abuse.
I think you will find your answers there.
Good luck and and I wish you peace and healing.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): Get help, go and see someone. They won't think your sick or mad, their think your brave to come foward and ask for help.
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