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writes:Hi guys, i really thank alot if u would mind to read my question below n send me an idea.Im 24y.o n my bf is 12years older than me. I've had LDR with him for 1,5years. I love him so much. I'll finish my study this year n i hope i'll get a good job after that. We have different religion, culture n social status. But so far he doesnt make it as a pbm. My family has kn0wn bout my relationshp with him n the vice versa. I really want to marry before im 28. I hope when im 25 or 26. Actually 28 is abit late to marry here. Again its bout difference in culture. I also hope that i hav a kid when im 29 or 30. I want to tell him bout this but im afraid its too early n he hasnt ready yet to know this. Im very afraid. I know he's struggling with the crisis there. But I really want to know whats his expectation bout me n him to make sure that we have the same direction n also becoz my parent wanna know bout this.Could u please help me.. What should i do? Should i tell him or wait him? And if i've to tell him, how should i do that?Thanks alot.
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reader, @lala +, writes (3 August 2010):
@lala is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u so much for ur help. I think i'll do like wat u suggest. Before i dunno how to take care sth like this since he's European, i dunno the way European think bout marriage, etc. But u just help me. Thanks alot.
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (3 August 2010):
 You have to take the leaps for anything worth while, bur be careful doing so men freak out when it comes to commitment, you just have to go about it the right way.... Ex. Just say so lets talk about you and me, where do you think this going. Where do you see us later on in a couple of years. Don't bring up the marriage and the kids just hear him talk and see where the conversation is going. If it seems to be going good ask if he plans to have kids one day etc.
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