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i am very good at giving all sorts of advise i have went through alot in life and am open to hear peoples worries and i will try my best to help sort them.

i am currently in a realtionship

Questioning my phone calls and texts

Q.   *Op's own title* My boyfriend wants to know who "I" am texting and who is texting me all the time. Most of the time it is between my kids and I. I resent telling him what I am doing all the time. I get annoyed and feel that he is being too nosy...

A.   6 April 2010: you and your boyfriend should trust each other and he shouldnt want to look at your phone to se who you are texting it is your privet busness. the reason he proberly wants to know is with his wife cheating on him he will think you might so that is ... (read in full...)

What s up with these unuusal headaches

Q.   For the past month I have had headaches on and off. Only in the morning, and they get better as the day goes on..But they're not really headaches but this weird feeling in my head. I also have a stuffy nose, especially when I lay down. I can't ...

A.   6 April 2010: this is really strange because i had this same problem about 3 weeks ago. i went to my doctor and he gave me tablets. my throat started to swell aslell as my sniffy nose and he said it was glaundfever but was treatable. hope your feeling okay soon ... (read in full...)

Mom found out about b/f & I having sex and now we have no contact at all!

Q.   my very strict mother found out that me and the love of my life hes 17 and im 16 have been having sex. and now we are banned from seeing eachother. we used to text eachother like every second and now i dont have a cellphone anymore, and the house ...

A.   6 April 2010: i can see your mam point my mam was the same with me. she is only looking out for you. she needs to see your not a baby no more and that you are sensible. she needs to treat you like an adult not a child. you and your boyfriend to talk to her but ... (read in full...)

I can't find a job and g/f is calling me a mootch!

Q.   My situationis this. I've been unemployed for 15 months and my 10 year relationship has become very tumultuous. I'm living in her house and find myself in a very awkward situation. I do love her and do what I can for her and around the house. She ...

A.   5 April 2010: We all no times are hard theese days ESP for jobs more and more people arnt employeed. Have you thought about your own bussness? Or even do stuff around home like painting. It summer soon so older people will need there gardens doing get your self ... (read in full...)

How do we get to know each other better?

Q.   I have a crush on a new guy at my school I have talked to him a few times to get to know him but he is kinda quiet so he doesn't really make conversation my friends told me to ask him out but i don't want to because I'm afraid he will say no because ...

A.   5 April 2010: Best way is to talk to him you and your friends sort a day to the pictures and invite a few Boys that way you won't feel shy around him. Another good way to get to know him is email get his email address n just ask questions like how you doing. But ... (read in full...)

Did I lose my virginity to myself?

Q.   Hey all, i have a question... i got really horning last ngith and started masturbating. i couldnt get enoguh, so i used a tool to help me feel good. im a virgin, and i started bleeding. could this be because of the tool i used, or my thing breakin...

A.   5 April 2010: your still a virgin and will be untill you have sexual intercourse with a male. dont feel disgusted with yourself for doing what you done it is natural. just be careful when putting stuff up x... (read in full...)

I'm scared of going into labour!

Q.   Hi I am pregnant, me and my partner have decided to call her scarlett if she is a girl, or oliver if he is a boy. i admit i was shocked when i found out i was pregnant, but me and my partner are very happy and more in love than ever before which is...

A.   5 April 2010: dont worry hun this is one of the best experiance you will have. your boyfriend wont be put of by it he will enjoy it most men do. everybody is diffrent and things hurt people in diffrent ways as it is your first time it might hurt i not going to ... (read in full...)

I want to sleep with him but will he stick by me if I get pregnant?

Q.   Is it wrong to want a baby with your boyfriend? I'm fifteen and he's turning fifteen May 31, 2010...We were on the phone last night and he was saying he wouldn't break up with me and he would stay and raise the baby...do you think I should believe ...

A.   5 April 2010: i been in your shoes hunick by. my boyfriend told me he would be with me forever but sadly we split. we never done anything and in a way i was happy for all i loved him he g left me. i was hurt and we never done a thing i think yous are both still ... (read in full...)

Why hasn't he proposed after all this time?

Q.   I'm 29 and I've been with my man for 11 years. We have a 10 year old son together, we've purchased a home together, cars together, and basically everything together as if we are married, but we're not. Everytime I bring up marriage he says everythi...

A.   5 April 2010: you seem to have a happy life without being married you seem to have everything you want. i know a girl dream is to get married and you will one day. but by telling him if he dosnt mary you by the end of this year he has to leave why let this break ... (read in full...)

13, we just met and he wants to have sex!

Q.   ummm this guy i just met wants to have sex and i want to but i am scared because he will be my first and i dont no how bad it hurts? ...

A.   5 April 2010: well hun your only 13 and only been together for a little time maybe you should wait a little longer because you n him are still young and sex isnt or shouldnt be an issue at your age. dont feel pushed into it just tell him your not ready and if he ... (read in full...)

He was too rough and now I'm bleeding

Q.   I had sex with this guy on saturday. He likes to use his fingers and he went a bit rough and deep he tried to put his fist in and i was bleeding.. He also said there was like a wall there.. I have been spot bleeding since saturday and dont know why? ...

A.   5 April 2010: ring the nhs helpline and explain they will give you a a number to ring if it is very painfull take painkillers untill you get through to someone. good luck x... (read in full...)

Putting him first and I'm losing out

Q.   Hey everyone :) Well i am 21 years old and have been in a relationship for the past 4 years.... I love my boyfriend so much but sometimes i feel like im tied down and cant do anything without thinking about his reaction. Im young and i wanna go out ...

A.   5 April 2010: he seems like he is ruling you and your doing everything he wants you to do. you have to think you arnt talking to your family or friends because of him. will he do this for you has he lost his friends and has his family left him? if he isnt ... (read in full...)

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