A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:We were good friends for a year, and I thought she was into me until I asked her out. She turned me down 'for now' but insisted we stay friends like nothing happened.I've tried but I can't. She's a really difficult person to be friends with and before I liked her so I saw through it. Now I have no desire to put up with her bullsh*t. I wanted to give her a second chance but she pissed me off again this week so I want to totally end everything. I'm not going to answer her texts or her facebook anymore. This is the problem though. We work together and nobody at work knew about us hanging out, much less me asking her out. I asked her to keep it that way and she has so far. I know shes going to confront me when I cut her out of my life and the one thing I don't want is for that to ruin my relationship with a close friend. He would not take kindly to me trying to get this girl behind his back (even though he doesn't like her). I know I can quit but the friendship with that person is something I want to keep so I don't know what to do. I want nothing to do with this girl but I feel like in a rash action she might spill everything and ruin absolutely all the relationships I had at my work. Also I don't feel up to salvaging anything or keeping it alive just because I've had absolutely enough. What are you suggestions?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (10 October 2011):
 Just do it slowly, avoid hanging out with her socially and avoid her at work.
And honestly, you might wan to tel lthat good friend of yours that you asked her out, before he hears it from her.
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