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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:my wife wants to leave me because i have been looking at sites with women who have big butts. I would like to send her messages without her knowing it is me. I want to save my marriage and i know i can do it, if i can send her messages without her knowing it is me. If i can make her listen to me without her knowing it is me, then i know i can save my marriage. i would like my screen name to be girly. just to throw her off. Can you please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): then why were you such a fool to look at this crap and make her feel this way
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 October 2008):
 I found the post we were thinking about. She posted in the forum, rather than in the main site. Here's the link.
http://www.dearcupid.org/forum/lounge/1319
I guess she didn't submit it as a question after all.
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 October 2008):
 We did have a post from a woman who was upset about her husband going to big butt porn sites just recently, tried to find it but I can't...Poster if that was your wife, prepare to be busted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): I thought you was a guy at first, cause only a husband would have such a dumb idea. This would make any woman madder than ever. Now I see your a female aged 36-40. Honey, come on, you got to be cleverer than that. If you choose a "girly" name and start playing stupid games, she's bound to know it's you. How about writing her a letter if you've really messed up. Tell her how you feel and ask her not to leave you cause she'll break your heart if she does. I would have expected more sense in a woman....
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 October 2008):
Oh dear. If you logged in with your wife's account, she will know about it because she will be able to read her questions, and yours will be right there. Not a good idea to try to be fake about this. Just talk with her, and listen. Good luck, you're going to need it, I think.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 October 2008):
You mean you want to be an aunt on this site? Did you see that she wrote in here for advice? Is that why it says you are a female 36-40?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): Do you really think being deceptive is the answer? What happens if/when she finds out that "girly" is you? This is not a good idea! Why don't you just talk to her? I don't think playing games is the answer, and you're already in trouble, so why do you want to cause more trouble?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 October 2008):
 I'm sorry because this is not what you are asking for, but I think your idea will not work. If she has problems with you, the right way to deal with them is discuss them openly. I'm afraid this won't work.
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