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writes:hi there..i am in deep trouble again...i want to leave my husband but i do not know where to start or where to get help. i also have a child to consider as i am not willing to leave her with my husband. i want to start a new life possible far away from my husband and family. please give me advice on where to get advidce, find a place of my own. Reply to this Question
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reader, secret +, writes (22 August 2007):
secret is verified as being by the original poster of the question i have decided that i do want to do it. we have been married for the past 8 years and the relationship has been going downhill for the past 5 years. it has come to the point where do not want to be in the same room as him. i do not have any feelings towards him .
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reader, secret +, writes (22 August 2007):
secret is verified as being by the original poster of the questionya sorry flower girl..i live in uk...and i am from a srilankan background..my child is gonna be 3 in october and i am 25.
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reader, Butterflyfly +, writes (22 August 2007):
 sounds like you definately want to do it... or do you? aren't youjust upset with him for whatever reason? moreinformation needed.. we can't tell much from what you posted now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007): Unless he is violent and will hurt you if you tell him, there are procedures you need to take in order to do this. For one, you need to hire a lawyer to settle the divorce and get custody of your child and also so that you can settle for alimony. If he is the main bread winner in your household he is going to HAVE to pay you off and give you a monthly allowance for yourself and for your child. There are exceptions to this, that is why you need to consult a lawyer to make sure this applies to your circumstance.
Many lawyers will do FREE consultations. If after that you continue with the proceedings you can state in your divorce that you request your husband to pay for your lawyer bills. (Trust me, this is not too much to ask for and many judges DO sympathize). But again this all depends on the reasons for the divorce.
Once that is settled you take the money and find yourself a new place to live far away.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (21 August 2007):
 Need to give a bit more info babe as to what country you are from for us to be able to give you any further guidance.
Take care.xx.
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