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writes:i really wanna go the full way with my bf but im worried that once we do it he will go an cheat on me as all the other guys ive been with have. he says he loves me and we have been waiting and he said he wait more. my body and hearts says express my love physically but my brain thinks back to the past. how can i get over these thoughts Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 March 2007):
 Go with your brain and WAIT! Don't let him pressure you into it, and think of what happened from past experiences. If you want to remain with this guy then wait for as long as it takes. 6 months, a year even, only do it when YOU feel comfortable and of course if you think he's worthy of you and is proving that by the way he treats you. You don't say how old you are but please remember it's against the law to have sex with anyone before you're 16 and always remember to use protection.
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reader, leesweetheart +, writes (11 March 2007):
 its not easy thinking bout a loved one cheatin on u, i no i suffer from paranoia aswell. have u sat down with him and told him ur concerns? if not then this is the best thing to do he will then answer any questions u may have bout his faithfullness. u need to air how u feel then u may feel alot better bout sleeping with him. as they say its better to have loved and lost than to not loved at all
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