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I want to ask someone out, without using those specific words.

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Question - (21 March 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay, I've recently became friends with this boy, he's in some of my classes and because he is I feel that he is constantly looking at me. I caught him looking at me the other day in class and it was sensual stare. I like the fact that he is doing this. He's doing it that often I feel that I am developing feelings for him. I'm a little rusty at the whole ask him out kind of thing, I sort of know how to start a conversation with him, but sometimes because he knows that we stare at each other so much, it's beginning to feel awkward. I want him more than a friend, how can I do this, how can I ask him out without actually saying it?

I'm beginning to question myself, is it all in my head? Is he staring at me because he keeps catching me staring at him?

I really like this guy and don't want to blow it.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (22 March 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntYOu do realize that you liking him colors what you see him doing and how you interpret what he's doing and why right?

how about the next time you see him say "hey wanna hang together Saturday afternoon"

the words go and out are not in the sentence...

although Tisha's idea is good too.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (22 March 2013):

Tisha-1 agony aunt"Sooooooo, when are you going to ask me out?"

Say this after you've made a lot of eye contact, with a small smile (don't show all your teeth, lol).

You haven't asked him out and the ball is in his court.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2013):

You know what just relax it isn't like you have a time limit. Just talk to him once and if he likes you I guarantee he will start talking to you. Add him on social networking sites they're a good place to start chatting. (Dont talk to strangers though obviously).

If he keeps looking over at you in class he probably does fancy you. Play it cool. Good luck

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