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I want to approach him about hanging out with me, but don't know what to do

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Question - (2 December 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2012)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

dear cupid,

so i've had this crush on this guy since university started. he's 25 and i'm 18 and he's currently doing his masters but we have one class together because he needs the class to get into medschool.

we've had lab class and lectures together and we get along really well and click. we talk often, on Facebook, skype, text etc. sit together in class

but we've never hung out outside school and I just really want to hang out and see if we really do click and also to get to know him even better.

we did sort of hang out once because he showed me his apartment for a bit and gave me a lift to my friend's dorm in his car. We were talking and joking around and he mentioned that he had to be somewhere later (he usually volunteers at the hospital after lab) but we should do something some other time. Right now he let me borrow his sd card with some shows on it and i've been avoiding returning it to him in class by not sitting next to him x)

I kind of want to be like OH that sd card you lent me, i haven't returned it do you want to meet some time.... (see where i'm going with this..

but honestly i'm really terrible at this kind of thing and any suggestions would be more than welcome :) thank you!

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A female reader, Gwydion China +, writes (2 December 2012):

Sharing classes is already a great excuse to hang out after! Just go, hey you free after class today, wanna grab a coffee.... or if you really want a concrete reason, say, I'd like to discuss class topic, would like to hear your input etc. After all he is in the master's program, so you can use that as the excuse too. Guys appreciate respect and are usually very willing to help.

Pysch yourself up for the question, once it's out, you'll feel great :)

Good luck!

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