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writes:I need your help on how to tacticly approach a situation.I am 19 and my boyfriend is coming up (from the other end of the country, we met at uni) in a few weeks. Now my stepbrother has just moved back in with us so there is nowhere for my boyfriend to stay. My mum has been making comments like "he can sleep in your bed and you can go in your sisters room."Now I would really like to sleep in the same room as him. Mainly just to be close to him as we haven't seen each other for two months and he is only up for a weekend, so I would like to spend all the time with him that is possible.How would you suggest I go about speaking to my mum about this?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (30 July 2007):
 You're very welcome hunni.
Hope it all works out for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your responses. I will talk to my mum about it when she gets back from holiday next week (that gives me a week to work out how to approach it without getting stressed). I have also spoken to my boyfriend to tell him what might happen and he has told me how he sorted it out with his mum when I went to stay. Thank you again. x
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reader, quarky +, writes (30 July 2007):
 agree with the last post- speak to mum about it- as a parent- if it seems serious enough and given your age- i'd have a lot of respect for you asking! you may not get the answer you want tho so be prepared
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (29 July 2007):
I would sit down over a cup of coffee just you and her and put your opinion to her. Unfortunetly it's her house so her rules go, but you can at least discuss why she feels the way she does, and put your side across.
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