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*ngela Sam
writes:I had an online affair for almost 5 yrs with a 69 yrs old married man. We did not meet personally but had a huge fight for he plays with women in net and flirt and he had a gf where he met personally here in the Philippines.A year ago we had a big fight and I caused trouble by telling his wife about our online affair. I did it as my revenge and I was so mad and so angry and felt so humiliated. I felt he played on me.I love him so much and 2 months ago we are back again in our relationship and more intense than what we shared before but with limitations. We are now very clear with each other with the truth he wont walk away from his family. My question, inspite of the things I did to him by creating trouble, why did he still come back to me? He said his relationship with his wife is more physical than emotional and with me, he feels he has everything he wanted for. My online bf is a well to do family, he has his 2 companies and a foundation for the children in USA and till now he is very active in business. I don't know why he is back with me again but he kept on telling me he loves me and just cant walk away from his family
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 May I ask why you went back with a guy who won't ever leave his wife and family? Why are you wasting the best years of your life on a guy who isn't available? At age 69, this guy isn't going to be another 20 years. You have maybe, what, 4-5 years tops?
Then you'll be 4-5 years older and that far behind finding a real life person to love and cherish you. You'll also be older and competing with younger women for available men. It's just not a smart strategy. Terrible forward planning going on here.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 September 2010):
 This is going to sound mean, but there is a sucker born every minute.
This guy isn't what he seems. You don't have a relationship. What you have is some email communications that you don't even know the validity of. He's back chatting with you because he can and you are "in love."
You're wasting your time with him. He will never leave his family for you. He has told you that. What are you hoping for here?
I guess if you're content to just be pen pals for the rest of his life, that's your choice. Just know that you have nothing here but heartache.
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 Easy, you fill a need he has. You are someone he can abuse freely.
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