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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Things started going wrong when i told my man i love him.......he now says he doesn't want to be with me anymore and I'm left wondering why and what to do. Can you help me understand this please. Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 I presume you mean man as in boyfriend not husband?
It would seem he wanted a casual relationship, friends with sex if you like.
By confessing your love you made it too deep for him and he wants out for fear of commitment.
As for what to do, you can't make someone love you or even accept your love. Cry and move on.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): Can you tell me how long you were together? Sometimes the love word scares men off. If it does.....he is not a real man. Not the one for you.
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reader, Tumasking  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 I don't know how to say beacuse I can't understand why.Perhaps he had encountered a loving-fraud,the words recolling his unpleasant memory
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): Dear anonymous, Where you sure he felt the same way when you told him? Many men dont usually like to hear the words "I LOVE YOU" because it makes them feel sucluded from every women.Most Guys like to think they are perfect and like to flirt with the opposite sex to prove they have still got what it takes to get another women.My opinion is to ask him why he doesnt want you and try to act like adults and find out what his problem is with you and try and change if you really loved him you would change for him.
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