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writes:I have a crush on a guy friend for about 2 years.. at first we only hang out to study. However, during the very last semester, we hang out quite often along with few other friends. Then i discovered that he likes another friend of mine but then that friend of mine likes another guy. He came to know about this and was heartbroken. Seeing him sad, i took my courage and told him how i feel about him. Since then he seems distant and it's been couple of months since i last heard from him. I hope that we can at least be friend and his birthday is approaching soon.. what is your advice on this? Should i still contact him and wish him happy birthday or just let everything go and move on? your advice is very much appreciated...
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reader, littletigle11  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 Still always try to be there for him as a friend.Even if it wasn't exactly what you had of hoped, you still have him, as such.You should still contact him, maybe act like nothing has happened and have him approuch you, on the situation, when he's good and ready.Or you could just ask him, straight up, so you know where you stand.Give it a week or two, and if nothing comes of it, move on and just try to stay friends with him.Whatever you do, do it for you, as you need/wnat to know where you stand with him, else you're just on hold.I would;write down, 'what i want' and 'how i'm going to get it' then, fill it in as appropriate and then go for it.Like i always say 'Life Is What YOU Make It'Hope this helps.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): txt him saying you respect his wishes and would like to remain freinds with him and that you care for him alot. Then wait for him to reply and go from there, if he does not reply withtin a few weeks i suggest you forget about him and move on.
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