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I thought we had a connection..and I have a girlfriend already..

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Question - (27 February 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2011)
A male age 41-50, *1flames writes:

Hello people

Just need your opinion.

I have only worked at my new place for 5 weeks, it's a big retail store.

In the last few weeks I have been speaking and really flirting with a girl there.

She works in a different part of the store from me but every time I see her, the eye contact and smiles have been intense, she also pulls a cheeky face and bobs her tongue out at me.

I just get the feeling she is into me too and we seem to have a really good connection.

Anyway a few days ago she has found out I fancy her and has been different when she sees me. Now she avoids my eye contact ect and when she does have to see me she dosen't want to stick around.

Have I read the signals wrong or is she shy or playing hard to get?

Also you will shoot me down for this but I have a girlfriend and I think she has found that out aswell, could that be the reason?

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A female reader, SweetSmoochy United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

SweetSmoochy agony auntSo...you fancy her just because you make eye contact occasionally or because you've talked to her?

She probably found out you have a girlfriend and is embarassed for flirting with you.

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A female reader, Jen1689 United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

Jen1689 agony auntIsn't the real issue that you have a girlfriend and you're worried about the fact that a girl you've been flirting with doesn't seem interested? Why do you care? Your question should be whether you really care about your relationship with your girlfriend. I'm thinking no, considering you're worried about whether another girl is interested in you. You need to figure your priorities out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011):

Why are you flirting with this girl if you're already with somebody else?

Yes, more than likely this other girl has found out you have a girlfriend.

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