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30-35,
*mfgcheez
writes:Let me apologize... This will be long... my ex and I were dating for about 3.5 months, and things were great for the first 2 or so. By this, I mean she was really into me, wanted to do what I liked, always wanted to spend time with me, etc. She was basically an angel to me, though she was sarcastic and sometimes abrasive toward others. I just thought that people she held dear wouldn't fall victim. However, for the last month, I became a target.She was disrespectful, snide, and not very romantic. Plus, she didn't talk much about her problems. We talked a couple of times and she'd be very apologetic, and things would seem to get better for a week or so, but then get bad again.Then, I was finally at the point of saying I was leaving if she didn't straighten up. Little did I know that she was breaking up with me at this same time. Her reasons were that I was different than any guy she's been with, that I wasn't a dick, didn't cheat, and didn't lie. She's been hurt a lot in the past, and said she was on edge, waiting for "something bad to happen" because we never fought, and she was afraid of something big happening. She then said that she just needed to get away from everything, and that it wasn't fair to me to make me go through this. After talking again a week later, I brought up the thought of trying again, but changing things on both of our ends because it's nonsense for her to throw away something good. She neither said yes or no, and just acknowledged that she knows where I stand, and has been sending mixed messages ever since. My question now is... Do I wait for this? Is it worth it? If we get back together, will she just become abrasive again, but for other reasons? And if it is worth it, how do I make it happen? It's been about 3 days since the last talk.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 May 2010):
She's an immature little girl who doesn't care about anyone but herself. Let her go.
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