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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a bi friend (she's a girl, I'm also a girl), I didn't think I was bi, but I became jealous when she got her first girlfriend and began to question myself. When they broke up, I realized I probably liked her. I think she liked me too, cuz it almost seemed as if she was flirting with me. Anyway, I said nothing and now she has a boyfriend :c He's really serious about it, completely clingy and is even thinking of proposing when she turns 19 (we're 18 now).That kills me. But she and I still hug and hold hands all the time. Help me please?I can't stop thinking about this. I've tried really hard to get over the crush but I didn't work, and now I'm desperate
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reader, Zanie  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 I know how you feel. It's so confusing. The question you have to ask yourself as a bisexual woman is...Can I spend the rest of my life with a woman? Can I be out?
Depending on your family, faith, friends...it can be a big deal. If you feel as though, the answer to that question is yes...than maybe you should tell your friend and see how she responds. How serious is she about this guy?
There are so many ways it can go though.
I told my best friend that I was bi, but that we could never have a long term relationship. We still hung out and we eventually crossed that line. When nothing came of it the sexual encounter, and no relationship worked out. She could'nt get over me and she moved away with another woman. We weren't friends for year. She returned and we have been friends 10 years now.
You'll never know unless you tell her. Good Luck!
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