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writes: I recently discovered that my boyfriend had advertised himself for sex on adult friend finder. I have found this out through a long and torturous voyage of discovery. There have been a number of times when he promised he had now told me the whole truth when he had not. For instance initially he said that he only advertised himself for sexy chat and not for sex and that he was not intending to meet up with anyone. He eventually gave me his password and I have read a number of the emails that he wrote all of which clearly state that he would love to meet up for sex. He did in fact arrange to meet one girl and almost did turning back a few streets away. It all started when unbeknown to me he went to buy an engagement ring and then had a panic about the thought of making that sort of commitment to me. I have been very depressed since I discovered what has been going on. I thought (as did all my friends) that he was such an amazing man and that we had a fantastic relationship. I asked him whether there were any sexual problems between us and said he has never had sex as good as with me. He is away until June in the Artic and I am supposed to be meeting up with him at Christmas. He really wants to save our relationship and thinks that what has happened will make us stronger. I don't know what to think or do. I want "our old relationship" back but this obviously is not possible. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): Leave him. He has cheated and you will never really trust him again. I know I have been there. You can never forget the betrayal - it is like a cancer. Find someone who will make the story of your love sweet and true -not smeered with deception and sleeze. Do you really want to stay with someone who is capable of that type of deception and cheating? Whatever he says, whatever his excuses, he did it because he wanted to. There is no going back from that. There are plenty of honest and true men out there, give this one the boot and never look back. You are worth more.
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