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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys ive been with my partner for 6 years and we have a great sex life. We have sex about 9 times a week depending on how often we meet. He has a problem with premature ejaculation. However this doesnt mean he cannot satisfy me and he does almost every time (not through actual intercourse). Ive always told him how great he is in bed and he has nothing to worry about. He still insists on apolagising and tells me its because hes so attracted to me. I lost my virginty to this Boy (man now but were still two teenagers in my eyes)and have never even thought about having sex with someone else, im completley happy with him. Honestly I have no problem with it we have sex 3/4 times a night so it gets better and longer as the night progresses. I hate the fact he feels inadequate because he really isnt. I love him with all my heart and the sex is great. Im scared that because hes so worried about pleasing me hes not enjoying sex although it seems he is this has got to have some sort of phsycological effect on him. From a mans point of view Is there anything I can do to make him see that I have no problems with our sex life or his skills in the bedroom. And if he wants to cum i dont want him in his head to panic and try and stop I just want him to relax.
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reader, SeaGreen  +, writes (27 September 2014):
 My suggestion is to print out your answer and show it to him.
Or you can suggest he seek help for his "problem." If you google it I'm sure there is plenty of sites with advice and techniques to help so he can feel better about his performance in bed.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (27 September 2014):
 Just talk to him and tell him durin sex how good it feels and how is making you cum over and over(multiple orgasms are the dream that we men wish for our partners)If I make her cum twice in one night I can rest assured i am her man.
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