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writes:hii think my girlfriend is cheating on me. we've been dating over a year now, the first few months was fine, but now alot of stuff has changed, and I was wondering could anyone help me out on what to do, and here are some reason why i think she is.(1)she has a lot of guy friends, whenever we are together when she sees them she gives them a good welcoming, but with me she just comes up and says hi, and it doesn't even sound like shes happy to see me.(2)Whenever i ask her how her days been on the days i haven't seen her, she just says okay, even if i try to get her to talk about it she won't.(3)about a month and a half ago, on guy from online told me she said a lot of stuff to him, like i didn't have to know everything she does and stuff like that, after the guy told me about it, she finely owned up to that she did it.(4)a week after number three happened, she broke up with me, saying that she didn't feel that close to me anymore, and there was a week before school started, and the first thing that went though my mind when she broke up with me, was that she prolly got tired of me over the summer and wanted to look for someone new when school started, but a day before school started we started dating again, she said that the time she stay away from me was hard on her, and that she knows now that she does love me.(5)now that school as started she doesn't call that much anymore, and when she does, she will only talk to me for about ten mins a day.(6)every time i do talk to her i ask her to hangout with me over the weekend, but she says that her mom won't let her that she has to much homework to do, but later on the week i found out that she only had very little homework, and the weekends that i know for sure she doesn't have homework, she brings up something else, like staying the night with a friend or something.(7)in the past she's done stuff, the first month we was dating, we went with a bunch of friends and hungout one night, the whole night she didn't talk to me, she kelp flirting with this other guy i didn't know him at the time but after i got to know him, he cheats on his girlfriend a lot, but anyways later that night we went to a friends house and build a fire it was cold out, i was in the house for a few mins and when i came out she was sharing cover with that dude, and on the way out there i kelp hearing someone telling her i was coming, and when i got out there and saw that he really pissed me off, but i got over it with time.(8)another time me and her and one of her guy friends was hanging out and they was fighting but only playing around, and he grab her boobs, but i wasn't looking at them at the time it happened and he told me and said sorry that he didn't mean to, but she never said sorry or anything, she just laughed about it.(9)she admits to being a really good at lying and she is, she lie's to her mom a lot, and a lot of other people, at first i didn't think much about it, then i got to thinking if she lie's to her own mom then why wouldn't she lie to me, later i found out that she lied to me when she first said she loved me, she told me she loved me a month after we started dating, but i read in one of her emails she wrote a friend saying that she wasn't in love with me yet, and the date on the email we one month after she told me she was.(10) whenever we first started dating she told me she was a virgin, but when we did it she didn't bleed, and she wasn't tight at all, i know this might make it look bad on my size, but it's avg (can't spell the word sorry) if you must know.that's about all of them besides the fact that i feel it in my gut that she is cheating, i've been cheated on by every girl i dated so far, but they just came right out and told me, but i really would like to get help on the matter before it goes any farther and i go insane wondering what to do. so please help me out on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): I cannot tell you if your girlfriend is cheating but I can tell you that she has absolutely no respect for you. From all that you have described it sounds like you are an acquaintance at best. Hugs her guy mates but just says hi to you? Speaks to you on the phone for a few minutes? She cannot be THAT busy everyday that she cannot make time for her boyfriend, unless she makes time for her bestie and her other mates first and then has a few dregs of time for you at the end...
I would think carefully if you want to commit to such a relationship.
Ps: For number 10- she doesnt have to bleed to be super tight for her to be a virgin. Women do not always bleed and not always super tight. She could have just be very aroused.
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