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writes:Somebody told me that they think that my boyfriend is bi and i found from a face book profile saying that he was in to woman and men and now my sister said that he should have told me is she right. Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 October 2015):
 Maybe. But, since he is in a relationship with you now, he is supposed to be faithful and to approach neither other females nor other males . So I don't quite see what difference does it make for you in practice even if he is bisexual.
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reader, Tottochan  +, writes (4 October 2015):
Hi,I think that the answer to this depends on how long the two of you have been together.If you have been together only for a short time, then I think he must have thought that this information was very personal, and he would have shared it with you when the time was right.If you have been together really long, then it is strange that he hasn't told you, but that's only because, usually in long term relationships, you end up knowing practically everything about the other person.But to be fair, he is with you now, so it doesn't really matter who he was with earlier isn't it? Unless he has a roving eye, or has cheated, it shouldn't matter what his preferences are - if he has, then it only matters because you will have to be cautious around people of both genders.The only thing is, he hopefully shouldn't be closeted. As in, lie to everyone else around him, and maybe to himself as well. Because that can be dangerous, as suppressing desires in ourselves actually makes us act out in unhealthy ways.Since you have found out this fact, why don't you simply ask him about it? Don't be accusatory, just ask him as a matter of fact. Will this in any way affect your relationship?
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