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I think my BF views me as annoying when his friends are there, how can we be more lovey when people are around ?

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Question - (22 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2006)
A age 30-35, * writes:

Hey everyone it seems like i'm asking the same question each time but my problem is i think my bf is seeing me as annoying. Like at times when he brings his guy friends over so we ALL can hang out its pretty much his friends hanging out and me watching. I bring everyone else down with my shyness

Its not that i cant get along with his friends its just i have a hard time not being so shy around them. I mean when its just me and him we seem like such the cutest couple. we flirt and mess around (not in that way) :/ i just want to have fun and cuddle with him even if there is people around!! but how?

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A female reader, whisper01 +, writes (23 December 2006):

whisper01 agony aunti have a similar problem, me and this guy arent going out as such just...seeing each other =D

i'm absolutely terrified of his friends for some reason. i'm a naturally shy person but his friends are all loud etc and i get really really shy. however i'm the opposite of u. i go up to my guy and hug him and hold him because then i dont have to say anything.

honestly huni its easier than talking and you will feel much better if you get on with it

good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006):

well, start doing it then! what's stopping you.

u may feel uncomfortable at first but things should work out after a while.

it's either you learnt to or just accept that you're just not comfortable showing affection in front of others

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