A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well This Is Weird Butt..Last Year Me and My mate Fancied this lad at my School and We loved Him so Much that One day We started to 'Follow' Around the School and After School!! Ive Heard that 'Stalking' is wrong and weird. I asked my friend if we were Physco's and She said No Because Were only Young. But Im not Soo Sure.. Anyway this lad relized that we were following us and he was really depressed about it and he hated our guts!! When We started the New Year, My friend didnt fancy this lad anymore but I did! And we Stopped following him but hes in all my classes but 2 and I cant stop 'staring' at him in lessons! Hes noticed this aswell and he Hates it! He says that hes depressed and crys himself to sleep and once he said that he was going to kill himself! Everyone picks on me as well because of it. His dad has come in and Complained about it and Im In serious Trouble and They Might get the police involved!Is it Wrong?How Do I stop it??
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reader, cseame  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 When thinking about this boy just think about something elsei think the boy is obviously hurt but also scared...just calm down a little and stop staring concentrate on your own work think about something else..It doesn't matter whats going on with himjust think about whats going on with you and how you can fix it
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (13 February 2007):
 A crush may seem very intensive at your age.
But if you really care for this guy, leave him alone.
It is hurting him.
Not only it can cause you trouble but it is affecting him.
Whenever you feel the urge to stare, count til 10 and thing of something else quickly.
Go to your doctor and find out about councelling, never to young to start.
You must respect his feelings and that your attention is unwanted.
You must also get some self respect as you are making a fool of yourself.
At any age, the first mistake that girls make is by not giving boys enough space to breathe.
Good luck and take care
Angel of Love
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