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writes:i think im battling deppression and have bad anxiety, i dont like going out cos i hate how i look (even though im told im goodlooking) and i just dont feel like my life is going anywhere. i didnt go to college (besides being shy and anxious i realy didnt know what to do as i didnt just wanna go to get a degree in somthing i have no ambition to do) i did ok at school but only ok and im just stuck in a boring rut , work mon to fri wich i dont realy like my job bbecause again of my anxiety and shyness and lack of confidence im a window fitter (apprentice) and thers no room for error so i darent do anything so i find my self just helping passing tools and carrying stuff and to make matter worse one of the workers told me its a deadend job and i should go to collage and/or get a nother job. and i dont realy kn ow what to do. on my days off im stuck in my room on facebook and watching tv just deppresed realy, dont realy have friends to go out with. most of them have moved to diff city so its hard to see them and others have gotten into drugs so i distance myself from them i still talk t them on facebook but i dont go out with them probably because of my anxiety and shyness and dont realy have anyone to talk to my problem about. its ok saying go join a social club (im working on joining the gym football team) but i cant bring my self to do cos of my shyness and anxiety it would be to nerv wrecking, id be worrying what people thought of me, if id make freinds and so on... what can i do? please help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2011): Hey. My cousin has been treated with Major Depressive Syndrome for 6 months. Only 3 months ago he came out and told people close to him (family). he is now in a hospital and allowed home for weekends but he says he is so much happier now than he has been for a year or two. It sounds like you have really low self esteem and the best thing to do first would be talking about it with your parents then finding some help. Don't put yourself through it any longer.Good luck
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 December 2011):
 You need to go and get professional help. It sounds like you may have depression along side low self esteem issues. If you have tried to the best that you can and you cannot get by this. Then go and visit your doctor or a therapist who will be able to help you professionally and look at different angles from your past as to why you feel like this.
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