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writes: I'm not sure what to think about my guy friend. We've known each other for years and he used to fancy me for ages but i never felt the same way. We go to different colleges now but we still keep in touch and i see him when I'm out clubbing. Lately he's been flirting with me like crazy (but we've always had a flirty freindship)and phoning me and texting me quite regularly! The other day he was desperate for me to meet up with him but I couldn't and now he's not talked to me in a good few days! Why? Do you think he wants me again? ..Cos I kinda think i want him too now..
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (22 April 2006):
 Listen if you are attracted to this guy who is also a good friend then you need to get in touch and say hi, how you doing.
If it has always been a flirty relationship then I can't see the problem, if neither one of you is seeing anyone then you should see where it goes.
Try and ring him and explain why you couldn't meet up and that you would love to try and arrange a time which is good for both of you as you miss him. I don't think any guy would resist that, especially as he has always shown such interest in you. Perhaps he was offended or hurt that you couldn't see him as he could have been building up to asking you out so his confidence may have taken a bit of a knock.
Remember Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars, men go to their caves and women want to talk so he is only being a man and that is fine. Just understand that and make the first move. He will feel really chuffed I bet. If you can't get him on the phone send him a text saying sorry couldn't meet up really miss him and can he ring you.
I wish you well and let me know how it goes eh!!
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reader, Juliette +, writes (21 April 2006):
 Seems this guy would benefit from you making a move for a change, especially if you feel positive towards him. It sounds as if he's been holding a candle to you for some time. be a shame if you just missed the boat because you have grown accumstomed to him doing all the chasing.
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