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anonymous
writes:I am a 16 year old gal....its almost 3 months since my breakup...my problem is very strange i can't really express it but still I'll try my best in explaining it....sometimes i feel that i love him still...i can't live without him nor am i able to concentrate on my studies... and i really miss him a lot... everyday , every moment he's on my mind 24/7.. .can't really live without him! i sometimes text him... he also texts... he says he never wanted a girl like me and now he says he hates me. i sometimes feel i don't want anyone in my life nor am i ready for a new relationship... but i feel i can't really have anyone in my life and i can't imagine anyone in his place. I don't know why... its basically because during my relationship i had committed a lot of things beyond my limit... my friends don't know about my commitment but they know i like him a lot and they say it was a crush but i feel its love...am i right? i need some advice... please help... my nights r sleepless!!
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (8 August 2008):
 Was it your first relationship? They say that you'll never forget your first relationship, I second that!
I think about her a lot, but then I ask myself. Was I really in love? How can I know? How can I compare? I never cared for anybody else in my life, so I don't know if it was love. But it was good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): i was in a similar situation. you need to put your mind to other things, any ways you can get your mind OFF him. everything happens for a reason and clearly you were not ment to be with this guy. Take what you had learned from your relationship with him, and use it towards your next guy, like maybe dont commit so much until later on when your both ready.
Do things that you enjoy (hobbies) and soon youll find yourself thinking about him less and less. :)
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