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writes: I had flirted with this dude that I had met I think a good few weeks ago. I am afraid I came on too strong(I am very new to flirting with guys so...)But at first he didn't seem creeped outHe laughed alot and when all of my friends went away he was asking me alot of questions about myself and we seemed to get along fineI didn't flirt with him anymore after the first because I was afraid of making him nervous even though he said he wasn'tWe had normal conversations from then onThen all of a sudden he starts... Avoiding meIt started a day after his friend told me that he said he liked me but was too nervous to talk to me.I saw him yesterday and said hi and he said hey back but today I saw him in the hallway and said hi and he shunned me.Why the sudden change of behavior towards me?And I also feel like apologizing to him for being so forward before...because now I feel really bad( I basically told him infront of a bunch of my guy friends how cute I thought he was)How do I set things right with him so That we Can be friends again?
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (29 March 2012):
 What I don't understand is what you need to apologise for? You feel bad for being forward? You said yourself you were flirting with him and he didn't seem creeped out? How would you apologise?
"I just wanted to say sorry for telling you, in front of my friends, that I thought you were very cute?"
If he has stopped talking to you because of this, do you really want to get to know a guy who stops speaking to you when he finds out you like him???
It may be he has other things on his mind right now or is experiencing difficulties or problems? Give him the benefit of the doubt.
I wouldn't bother him too much right now. Just say "hi" when you see him, nothing more. Let him make the effort with you, if he wants to.
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