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I think I am ready to lose my virginity, but is this a wise decision?

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Question - (14 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2010)
A female Singapore age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am currently overseas and undergoing a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend who is back in my own country. I will be returning to my country in 3 months time and I was considering should I give my virginity to him then as I guess I am ready.

Do you think it is wise to do so? Becoz I feel that the distance has make the hearts fonder and I think if he can wait for me for that long I am ready for that. But just wondering if it is a wise decision made?

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (14 May 2010):

Danielepew agony auntYou're from Singapore, so you could be muslim. If you're a muslim, I strongly recommend that you do NOT do that.

If you're not a muslim, I also strongly recommend that you do not do that. How strong is your relationship? Can't you two wait, say, three months and one day?

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (14 May 2010):

EbonyBlossom agony auntYou said "I guess I am ready." Wait until you are sure. That could be before the next time you see him or in years to come. Have a good hard think about it. If you are ready, then I don't see why not =]

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2010):

if you are from a society that forbids sex before marriage then you should wait because if anything goes wrong with your relationship with your bf then you will be in big trouble.

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