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female
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26-29,
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writes:Hey I really need a mans advice here.I'm 18 and I'm interested in a man of 25 and I think he's interested in me too despite the slight age gap as we have very similar interests and are in similar worlds of gigging and music etc.. He's shown signs of liking me - making the special effort to come and talk to me and staying there talking to me for half an hour taking the opportunity to get as close as he could talking in my ear as the music was loud at the gig we were at, initiating hugs goodbye, being very attentive and flirty. I don't know whether I can suggest doing something together like playing together at a gig or something as that's what we enjoy doing and know each other from even though he's more advanced than me, or giving him the opportunity to know I'm interested too and to do something separate from forced situations. He's dropped hints of doing something like 'we should do it again sometime' but I didn't respond with anything more than a 'yeah' like maybe I should have done as the opportunity was there.As I have the sense he's interested but he hasn't asked me out, is it appropriate for me to suggest something to let him know I like him? I don't usually do anything like this but I really like him and I thought it might help him out if he doubts my interest in him, or would he just have asked me out if he liked me as any more than a friend? please help. I'm not sure how to go about this.
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (31 October 2013):
I hope you're still around to read this.
7 years is not a big difference at all. The AVERAGE difference in my family tree is 14 years and there's not one couple even close to a divorce. 121/121. Most are the still sloppily in love kind. So 7 years is nothing in my family.
But one thing usually happens. The younger woman lets the older man know that she wants him to ask her out. You need to do this somehow. The easy way is simply to tell him somehow you'd like him to ask you out or you're open to the possibility. Once he knows you're open to it, don't be shocked when good things happen.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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