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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:i think the guy i like (and i assumed the feeling was mutual) is lying to me. i asked him specifically if he knew a girl by the name of ----. i don't know her personally, i only know she is a very nice girl..he said, very convincingly No.clue number 1. the first time i was in his car, there were gas receipts with her name on them. I only looked cos there were lots of xxxs on the credit card line, but the last four digits were the same as my SSN...i remember saying it out loud, and he said "huh?" but i did not repeat it. i just asked him in the car, hey who's this girl with my same number? and he replied " i dunno, i think a friend of my mom's" clue 2. one time i borrowed his car, to run to market, and in his cd player there was a jason mraz, michael buble mix (her favorite music). i was perplexed because that is not his type of music. plus my lip gloss got left behind, and when i went to fetch it the next day, he had HID IT behind the drivers seat in the pocket?!?clue 3. i was cc'd on an email from a mutual friend, who forwarded a pic he sent from a party he was at, watching the world cup. and guess who's in the pic?!!!? WITH HIM?!!! albeit, they are not standing next to each other...but it's that girl!!! ok, whew, so we are in the early 5 months in, stage of this new liking each other a lot stage....and i always made sure to ask him--because i have a bad habit of attracting men that are taken, if he was single, and he would say yes yes yes, but he is not...and i am MAD MAD MAD. because he lied to me.what should i do? should i ignore him? should i confront him? i know i will write him off...but it's going to be hard (but i aim to do it)to cut him out of my circle, as we have a lot of the same friends...but he was always a little mysterious. should i kick his ass to the curb and that tell that nice girl, what he's up to?
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reader, rivi +, writes (13 June 2010):
Clearly he isn't giving you what you want.
So break up and move on.
And stop beefing about it.
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