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writes:I've been seeing a guy for a about six months now and over the six months I have noticed that on some occasions he cant get an erection or he is a bit soft or cant maintain the ercetion. We havent really talked about it but he has said he was a bit sorry he wasnt hard enough etc but everytime we have seen each other we have managed to have one session of sex without him going limp. Anyway over the six months I have noticed that he wont join me in having a glas of wine as hes not into drinking as much as he used to be and hes quite often got a runny nose. Anyway- I stayed at his house last night and he had to work in the morning so for the first time I was left alone in his house. I was looking for ahairdryer in is cupboard when I stumbeled across a packet of viagra with 3 tablets missing. Now I;m wondering whether I should talk to him about this- hes only 39 so shouldnt really be having ED if he is healthy and do you think this is why he doesnt drink and has a persistently bunged up runny nose. I think he should be honset if he is taking the drug- ive read that it affects fetility aswell which worries me as i would like to start a family in the next few years. He has talekd about getting depressed so maybe this is causing the ED, I just dont know whether bringing the topic up will make it worse???
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): If you're really in the 36 - 40 age range and you still want to wait a "few years" to start a family, I'd worry more about your own ability to conceive healthy offspring - or even to conceive at all - than the Viagra's effects on your boyfriend's fertility. Quite frankly, the Viagra is his own business.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 October 2010):
If he has viagra, then he's been to the doctor to talk about it already. And yes this is probably why he doesn't drink. I don't think you should talk to him about it, as it would make it worse. Instead, talk to a doctor yourself and ask about how viagra affects fertility and such.
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