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writes:I had an affair with a woman back at the beginning of summer. I know, it's wrong and I regret it. But that's not really what my question is about. After she broke up with her girlfriend, we continued seeing each other. We had some of the best times together. I loved spending time with her and I loved her more than I had loved anyone before. She meant so much to me, I did everything I could for her. But suddenly after a couple months, she decided she wanted to stop seeing me. She cut off all contact with me, ignored me, told me really harsh hurtful things, and on top of that she started seeing other women almost immediately. I feel empty inside. I feel betrayed, hurt, and I don't know if I can ever love anyone again.It's been since July and I'm still crying over it almost on a daily basis. I love her so much still even after she hurt me so much. What do I do?
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reader, muffy +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Sweet cheeks,I know how you feel.I'm still hurt over my last boyfriend and we broke up like last year. I honestly don't think she cares about anyone but herself.She hurt her ex and she hurt you and she'll continue what she's doing.It's better to try and not dwell on it as much as possible.You did everything you could for her and she decided to screw you over.Then you don't need her.You'll love again but it takes time for a broken heart to mend.Time heals all,remember that.I hope everything works out for you.If you need anything just let me know.
Love and kisses,
Muffy33
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): Well, if she doesn't want to see you then you're going to have to accept that. It's time to move on. Don't contact her. This woman obviously isn't that great, she cheated on her ex with you for starters, so that shows she can't be trusted. It doesn't really suprise me she's seeing other women because she doesn't sound like the monogamous type.
You need to realise it's over and that she obviously doesn't care about you by the way she's acting.
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