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30-35,
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writes:hi me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. the thing i think about has been her. she is my first thought when i wake up, my only thought during the day, and my last thought at night before i go 2 sleep. we do talk occasionaly. i found out that she has a new boyfriend and this crushed me inside. i still feel very strongly about her. i sense that she also has feelings but i dont think that they are as strong as mine and i am wondering SHOULD I TELL HER HOW I FELL?????????????? any help wolud be greatly appareciated
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reader, Ger1983  +, writes (4 October 2007):
Hi best thing is to play the nice card and keep friendly with her then perhaps go for a walk together or a soft drink.I know it would be hard to do but tell her that you really care for her.She may be shocked and not want to say anything. She may also tell you that she just wants to be friends.You need to keep your calm and just tell her you respect what she wants whatever it is. If she sees that you are grown up and sensitive enough to respect her wishes then after a while she may start to like you a lot again.Give her time and space and do not be over the top with texts and phone calls.From your age 13-15 you are very young so you have all the time in the world for her answer.From my own experience I use to get very upset in front of the girl when I was your age they see that as a sign of weakness and try to force her with pity.If it doesnt work out take the positives from the relationship. Every relationship is a learning curve and hopefully when you meet the right one if will be prefect.Keep the Chin up and Best of Luck
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