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He thinks it's a chore for him to go down on me, should I find someone else to satisfy my needs?

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Question - (4 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi im a sexy 22yr old,with a great body,nice curves and a bronze tan.i been with my boyfriend for 2yrs and from the very first night he went down on me and has enjoyed doing it,recently he has started to make it feel like its a chore he used to probe every inch now he just licks my clit he even fell asleep lastnight whilst doing me,i was so deeply hurt,yet im expected to be my best giving him head,would it be wrong to find another man to go down since he dont want to satisfy me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007):

I think you should find someone same as you, so you can both enjoy and les hurting good luck

I beleive life is short and everyone must be happy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007):

If that's all that matters to you in a relationship then find someone who give you what you need. I have to think you're a bit shallow (you felt the need to tell us how apparently sexy you are!) so if you don't really want to be with this bloke then don't string him along much longer.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007):

Well, if that's all you want a man for, give me a call!

Phil

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A female reader, Emma99 New Zealand +, writes (4 October 2007):

Hey, girl -- you should DEFINITELY find someone else -- a lover who gets bored/falls asleep (!!) when he goes down on you is not a lover ... it may be time to put him on the back burner.. it sounds as though you'd have other options...

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A male reader, Ger1983 Ireland +, writes (4 October 2007):

I know some guys do not like going down on girls no matter how much they fancy the girl.

Surely this is only a small thing maybe you should ask him why he does not like it.

He could make up for it in other ways plenty of positions and methods to have fun. As you said you give him plenty pleasure and have no problems with it.

If you really care for him this should only be a small obstacle but stress to him you have needs too.

Dont sleep with another guy just for this.

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