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writes:A few months ago I kissed a guy, we were both quite drunk, well really drunk.He goes to my college, and is in a few of my classes.It was really awkward for a while, but it's alright now.Anyway, I didn't know that he had a girlfriend, who is abit older than me. I don't know how long they've been going out, or if they still are.We don't really speak, I wouldn't say he was my freind. But he is in my classes, as I said, and I know his personality and we speak a little bit, but not just us two.Basiclly, I think I sort of like him.Although I don't know him all that well, I think we sort of know eachother a little.I don't know what to do!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): HiWhether he will cheat on you or not, is not the point. The point is that he is not interested in you at all. Had he been, he would have tried to chat you up, see where it goes. It was just a drunk kiss, and i don't think that he even remembers it. Yeah, be glad that it was only a kiss, and nothing more. Move on. Love
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 January 2010):
If he had a girlfriend and cheated, stay well away from him, because he will do it to you as well. I think you can afford to wait for a better guy.
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reader, Unknown0311  +, writes (31 January 2010):
Hmmmm, this may sound harsh and I don't mean it to. But, he has a girlfriend. Or had, that he cheated on. Not really a stand up guy. He doesn't seek you out to talk to you, or have any kind of friendship. I'm sure you've made yourself available and open to conversation. If not, I would do that. Find out about the girlfriend situation, and if he doesn't have one I would make myself available and open to conversation. Find something to chat to him about after class. If he doesn't take the bait and doesn't pursue you, write it off as a drunk moment and add it to the list of hotties you got to kiss while in college. But don't waste your time chasing after him, there are guys out there that don't have girlfriends and would love the chance to go out with you.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (31 January 2010):
 Back off and be glad you did nothing more than kiss. If you become his girlfriend, you don't want him to just go drink and kiss another girl. You make it sound like you have no choice but to be with him because you kissed him by "accident". If he is interested, he would have called you right now.
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