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writes:This is a question on behalf of my friend.she met a guy (guy one) about 3/4 years ago in a club, they bumped in to each other quite a lot and got on really well, she got his number, stopped going to this club for some reason and lost her phone. Before losing her phone they had swapped texts a few times but it didnt go further than that.She hadnt seen him since the last time in the club, a year ago, a guy came in to her work, that she hit it off with(guy two), but nothing ever happend as she was in a realtionship, 5 months ago, she split up with her boyfriend and her and guy 2, had a bit of a fling, it wasnt anything serious, they were just having a bit of fun together.Then she found out, that guy one, is her guy two's mate, she isnt sure if guy one recognises her as the same girl as it was 3/4 years ago,but she wants to ask him on a date all the same, the only thing stopping her, is the fling she had with guy two.She doesnt really know what to do, but also she doesnt want guy two to tell the people that she works with that she gets around (he doesnt work there, just spends time there) or start calling her a tart or whatever for 'going around his mates.She thinks he may do this as they just had a bit of no-strings, or that maybe he does actually like her and does it out of spite or jealousy.Any help would be great, thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshes done it, :D
shes finally dating him,
but the downfall is,
his mate, the one she slept with,
has said somthing to him thats made him really weird around her,
and from what we can work out, its something like
-every time you look at /touch her, youll think of me -
but he has done it knowingly to him before, found out he liked a girl and then had a bit of fun with her,
shes realised now how much of a ************** he must be to do that to his mate, but now she thinks thats been said, she keeps thinkin of it now aswel ....
they like each other loads and have great fun together, not seen her smile this much for ages to be honest, but, just that sentence and the others guys face pose problems, can anyone give me any advice on what problems /soloutions may be possable to pop up just so im ready with my shoulder for her lol
thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe msgd him askin for his number, but he didnt reply,
and she saw him tonight, with guy two, guy two didnt really talk to her much, and when she said to guy one, sorry about the drunken email, but can i come out with you guys, he said yes, then she asked bout his mobi number, he said he doesnt have a phone, then guy two asked if she had been sendin him naughty messages...in a jokey way,
so we are both wondering , if he actually doesnt have a phone or if he just doesnt want to give her his number but doesnt know how else to say no ??
what are your views guys?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell she braved it , she asked him if she could meet up with him before they all go out next time as 'her friends she goes out with arent as much fun as him' ha ha lol
an can she have his phone number (again)
hopefully itll work out, though there is only one answer, it was the answer she wanted to give her the kick up the ass lol, thank you !!!xxx
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reader, BendychickP  +, writes (15 July 2008):
 Well, its definetely a tricky situation. Your friend should have a talk with Guy Two and ask how he would feel about her asking out Guy One. If their time together was only a fling, he probably won't mind. But she should be wary of how she goes about this. Your friend also shouldn't have to worry about her reputation at her workplace. If Guy Two is mature, he'll take it like a man and step out gracefully. Plus, don't you think he'll look like a petulant child if he starts spreading rumours? Your friend should just go for it, because what if she chickens out and misses out on a really great relationship?
Bendy xx
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