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anonymous
writes:I slept with a married man a week ago. It was only once but I've been feeling terrible since. I had known him for three years. After that night, he texted me once or twice mentioning how great that night was. I texted him back but I tried to distant as much as possible. He stopped calling and texting 4 days ago. I haven't tried to get into contact with him either. I wonder why he stopped calling not that I want to get involved with him again or anything but still.. Wondering about why he hasn't called me is killing me...
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 February 2012):
 mistakes happen... bad choices teach us to make better choices next time.
beating yourself up accomplishes nothing...
use this as a learning tool and make positive changes for yourself.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (19 February 2012):
 Babes, read the link, write a letter, do something positive.. Yes you done wrong, but we don't want you to hate yourself and feel devastated and hurting.
You done a bad thing, now try to satisfy karma, not by hurting you, but by doing something that makes the world a happier place to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't have any intention of destroying anybody's marriage. It was a horrible thing that I slept with him in the first place and I know that. I'm just praying karma won't get me for that. I'm not gonna call him or say anything. I'm just gonna continue feeling so cheap and used because that is what I really deserve. Thank you for your comments
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 February 2012):
do not call him.
instead write a very long detailed letter to him tell him everything. IN WRITING.
then seal it in an envelope and put it away in a drawer for years and years.... later on when you read it you will see how much you have grown and changed and be so happy you didn't do what you thought was right back then.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (19 February 2012):
Read the link I gave you... they is the experts, tons of women in love with a nice married men.. read the link and then come back to us and talk.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/in-love-w-a-married-man-how-do-i-cope-w-break-up.html
No woman in love with a married man can read this and still feel alone and confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012): sleeping with a married man is wrong. it is the most painful and disrespectful thing the both of you could ever do to his wife, and you should forget about the whole encounter.
do not destroy someones marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your responses. It is true that I don't want him but I just want to call him and tell him how I really feel about him after that terrible mistake. He was my good friend or so I thought so it hurts to be treated that way by a friend. Probably, I shouldn't say anything and I'm trying to stay strong but what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012): Why dn't u send a msg to his wife saying he is in a relationship with u....
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reader, Miamine +, writes (19 February 2012):
He's marriedHe's a cheatHe can't be faithfulHe wanted sexYou gave him sexNow he's looking for his next victimPlease check out this post.. lots of women in your situation, maybe you'll find some comfort in knowing that you've not wasted years on a guy who won't leave his wife.... Don't waste your time on dreams.. it's the sex he wants and that's all he can ever give someone.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/in-love-w-a-married-man-how-do-i-cope-w-break-up.html
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 February 2012):
you haven't' tried to contact him.
you don't want to get involved with him and yet you are wondering why he hasn't called?
be grateful he's not contacting you.
as to why... it's easy you are no longer a challenge... he got sex now he's done.
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